A very better but bitter Message of 2020 to ALL social media victimized young generation who are in search of a true life partner in a fake world of social media. Today, I am going to open your eyes with the smacks of veracity.
Whether you admit it or NOT but every single of us is athirst of a true lover and always think that this year may reveal their dreams get true but before initiating this new year and fall into a relationship with someone, you must think carefully about what you are going to do?
A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle it lightly. Are you ready for a relationship with her/him? Are you physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually well mature to meet her/his needs?
Being sexually or emotionally attracted to her/him means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your frustration or your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that?
This person has a history. Can you handle it? S(he) has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her/his mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her/his dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous? S(he) already had a life before S(he) met you. Can you fit into it and help to improve her/his life furthermore? Love is a commitment. Are you ready to commit your life to help her/him grow and become all that S(he) can be, by God’s grace?
Is S(he) valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of HER/HIS dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making her/his all the Lord plans for her/him to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother her/him. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of your ‘emotional madness’. A person needs much more than ‘I love you’. S(he) needs your dedication. If you are not ready to make that loyalty which will lead to a successful marriage, then please leave her/him alone in peace and stop wasting her/his valuable time and useful resources.
Sorry!!! if something felt heavy to you but the truth is that sun can’t be hidden while keeping hands on eyes. We must confront with these kinds of realities and accept these truths viz-a-viz. Kindly start this very new year with NOT any sympathy but with great empathy, Put yourself in others’ shoes before taking any harsh decision. Don’t put someone else in the abrasive situation due to your naivety. You may have no idea that what others journey is all about and how others are fighting to survive.
I wish you ALL a very Blessing year. May ALLAH almighty give us true faith and bless us with what we need the most.
P.s Criticism is allowed, let’s discourse the aforesaid idea.